For the poison of hatred seated near the heart doubles the burden for the one who suffers the disease; he is burdened with his own sorrow, and groans on seeing another’s happiness.

Meaning of the quote

Holding onto hatred is like carrying a heavy weight. It makes you feel sad and upset about your own life. But it also makes you feel bad when you see others who are happy, because you can't feel happy yourself. The hatred inside you causes you to suffer twice - from your own sadness and from being jealous of others.

About Aeschylus

Aeschylus was an ancient Greek tragedian known as the ‘father of tragedy.’ He expanded the number of characters in the theatre and allowed conflict among them, which was a significant development in the genre. Only seven of his estimated 70-90 plays have survived, and there is an ongoing debate about the authorship of one of them, Prometheus Bound.

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For hostile word let hostile word be paid.

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From a small seed a mighty trunk may grow.

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We shall perish by guile just as we slew.

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I would rather be ignorant than knowledgeable of evils.

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For know that no one is free, except Zeus.

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For there is no defense for a man who, in the excess of his wealth, has kicked the great altar of Justice out of sight.

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By Time and Age full many things are taught.

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There are times when fear is good. It must keep its watchful place at the heart’s controls.

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For children preserve the fame of a man after his death.

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There is no sickness worse for me than words that to be kind must lie.

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What is there more kindly than the feeling between host and guest?

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The words of truth are simple.

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Words are the physicians of a mind diseased.

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It is always in season for old men to learn.

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It is in the character of very few men to honor without envy a friend who has prospered.

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God loves to help him who strives to help himself.

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His resolve is not to seem the bravest, but to be.

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When a match has equal partners then I fear not.

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He who goes unenvied shall not be admired.

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I, schooled in misery, know many purifying rites, and I know where speech is proper and where silence.

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When a man’s willing and eager the god’s join in.

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It is not the oath that makes us believe the man, but the man the oath.

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For the impious act begets more after it, like to the parent stock.

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Death is softer by far than tyranny.

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Whenever a man makes haste, God too hastens with him.

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Everyone’s quick to blame the alien.

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It is a light thing for whoever keeps his foot outside trouble to advise and counsel him that suffers.

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The man who does ill must suffer ill.

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Search well and be wise, nor believe that self-willed pride will ever be better than good counsel.

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I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning to sail my ship.

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What exists outside is a man’s concern; let no woman give advice; and do no mischief within doors.

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When strength is yoked with justice, where is a mightier pair than they?

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Who, except the gods, can live time through forever without any pain?

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It is good even for old men to learn wisdom.

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Happiness is a choice that requires effort at times.

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It is best for the wise man not to seem wise.

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Since long I’ve held silence a remedy for harm.

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In the lack of judgment great harm arises, but one vote cast can set right a house.

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Be bold and boast, just like the cock beside the hen.

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For a murderous blow let murderous blow atone.

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For this is the mark of a wise and upright man, not to rail against the gods in misfortune.

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Unions in wedlock are perverted by the victory of shameless passion that masters the female among men and beasts.

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Excessive fear is always powerless.

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By polluting clear water with slime you will never find good drinking water.

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The anvil of justice is planted firm, and fate who makes the sword does the forging in advance.

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But time growing old teaches all things.

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I have learned to hate all traitors, and there is no disease that I spit on more than treachery.

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The man whose authority is recent is always stern.

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Whoever is new to power is always harsh.

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Bronze in the mirror of the form, wine of the mind.

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Neither a life of anarchy nor one beneath a despot should you praise; to all that lies in the middle a god has given excellence.

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If a man suffers ill, let it be without shame; for this is the only profit when we are dead. You will never say a good word about deeds that are evil and disgraceful.

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I willingly speak to those who know, but for those who do not know I forget.

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What atonement is there for blood spilt upon the earth?

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Obedience is the mother of success and is wedded to safety.

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Destiny waits alike for the free man as well as for him enslaved by another’s might.

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There is no disgrace in an enemy suffering ill at an enemy’s hand, when you hate mutually.

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Memory is the mother of all wisdom.

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Call no man happy till he is dead.

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Self-will in the man who does not reckon wisely is by itself the weakest of all things.

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Know not to revere human things too much.

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For somehow this disease inheres in tyranny, never to trust one’s friends.

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Of all the gods only death does not desire gifts.

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We must pronounce him fortunate who has ended his life in fair prosperity.

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God lends a helping hand to the man who tries hard.

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Of prosperity mortals can never have enough.

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I say you must not win an unjust case by oaths.

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To be free from evil thoughts is God’s best gift.

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