One of the things I’ve really gotten past in the last couple of years is the idea of being made uncomfortable by the way things appear, rather than how things are. Clearly in this business you have to contend with a lot of that.

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In this quote, Aimee Mann, an American musician, says that she has learned to focus on how things truly are, rather than being bothered by how they appear on the surface. In her line of work, she has to deal with a lot of situations where things may seem one way, but are actually different. She has realized that it's important to look past the surface and understand the real situation.

About Aimee Mann

Aimee Mann is an acclaimed American singer-songwriter who has released ten solo albums over the past four decades. Known for her sardonic and literate lyrics, Mann’s work with producer Jon Brion in the 1990s was influential on alternative rock. She co-founded the new wave band ‘Til Tuesday in the 1980s and has since established herself as a career artist who can work independently from major record labels.

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I certainly understand that we’re all trying to make a living, but I’m not thinking about that when I’m making it. And if that’s your sole motivation, it’s going to reflect that narcissistic greed, and you’re going to hear it in the music.

Aimee Mann

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I wanted to try to write songs on the piano to get a different flavor.

Aimee Mann

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It’s funny, because my last record was a lot about isolation and people living in separate worlds that other people can’t even understand, which drug addiction is the perfect negative example of.

Aimee Mann

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The knock-out punch is always the one you never see coming.

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Everyone’s just extracting meaning and feeling and emotion from almost every aspect of music, and I think that for me, it’s a huge antidote to that to have a concept album.

Aimee Mann

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It’s more important for me to have a good record with good music and be part of a movie that’s good and where the music is used in a really great way. That’s the important thing. The other stuff you want to say about it, I don’t care.

Aimee Mann

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I have a 6-year-old, and his thing is to turn on Radio Disney in the car, and I get such an allergic reaction to listening to that music and the context into which it falls. I’m really working on him about that.

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There’s a lot of music that sounds like it’s literally computer-generated, totally divorced from a guy sitting down at an instrument.

Aimee Mann

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It really doesn’t matter to me what people say about me anymore.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

For me, there’s a fine line between telling a story that’s fictional with lots of details and then removing yourself too much from it, so it’s bloodless, a little too fictional.

Aimee Mann

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In the ’70s, everybody thought drugs were just good times. People didn’t really know about drug addiction, or that such a thing existed. When I grew up in the ’70s I thought you had to take drugs. It was almost like I didn’t think you had a choice.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

I didn’t want to play these people any more songs and have them say that they weren’t good enough. So my response was to just not be able to write anymore. I know that’s not the healthiest of responses.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

Listen, I’m out of this system, man, I’m out… I’m doing better than ever. I couldn’t be more happy.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

Everybody kind of understands, Oh yeah you take drugs and it does something to your brain and then you can’t stop. It’s easier to describe that shame, that horrible feeling of not being able to control your own life.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

You know what, the drummer is my manager. He’s busy. And I’m busy. I don’t need the dough, though. But having said that, there’s a limit to how much bad music I wanna play. I did it when I was young, and some of the music was OK, but it wasn’t great.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter

One of the things I’ve really gotten past in the last couple of years is the idea of being made uncomfortable by the way things appear, rather than how things are. Clearly in this business you have to contend with a lot of that.

Aimee Mann

American singer-songwriter