Experience is not what happens to you; it’s what you do with what happens to you.
Meaning of the quote
Experience is not just about the things that happen to you in life. It's about how you choose to respond to those things and what you learn from them. The same event can happen to two different people, but they might have very different experiences because one person uses it as a chance to grow and the other doesn't. Your experience is all about what you decide to do with the things that happen to you.
About Aldous Huxley
Aldous Huxley was an acclaimed English writer and philosopher who produced a vast body of work, including novels, non-fiction, essays, and poetry. He was nominated for the Nobel Prize in Literature nine times and was recognized as one of the foremost intellectuals of his era, known for his explorations of philosophical mysticism and his influential dystopian and utopian visions in works like Brave New World and Island.
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Like every man of sense and good feeling, I abominate work.
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The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which mean never losing your enthusiasm.
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The quality of moral behavior varies in inverse ratio to the number of human beings involved.
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One of the great attractions of patriotism – it fulfills our worst wishes. In the person of our nation we are able, vicariously, to bully and cheat. Bully and cheat, what’s more, with a feeling that we are profoundly virtuous.
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Beauty is worse than wine, it intoxicates both the holder and beholder.
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The propagandist’s purpose is to make one set of people forget that certain other sets of people are human.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
The finest works of art are precious, among other reasons, because they make it possible for us to know, if only imperfectly and for a little while, what it actually feels like to think subtly and feel nobly.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
There is no substitute for talent. Industry and all its virtues are of no avail.
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The most valuable of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it has to be done, whether you like it or not.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
What with making their way and enjoying what they have won, heroes have no time to think. But the sons of heroes – ah, they have all the necessary leisure.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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The proper study of mankind is books.
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Chastity – the most unnatural of all the sexual perversions.
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A fanatic is a man who consciously over compensates a secret doubt.
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Man is an intelligence in servitude to his organs.
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An intellectual is a person who’s found one thing that’s more interesting than sex.
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We are all geniuses up to the age of ten.
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A democracy which makes or even effectively prepares for modern, scientific war must necessarily cease to be democratic. No country can be really well prepared for modern war unless it is governed by a tyrant, at the head of a highly trained and perfectly obedient bureaucracy.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Most of one’s life is one prolonged effort to prevent oneself thinking.
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After silence, that which comes nearest to expressing the inexpressible is music.
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Most ignorance is vincible ignorance. We don’t know because we don’t want to know.
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So long as men worship the Caesars and Napoleons, Caesars and Napoleons will duly arise and make them miserable.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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The impulse to cruelty is, in many people, almost as violent as the impulse to sexual love – almost as violent and much more mischievous.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
A man may be a pessimistic determinist before lunch and an optimistic believer in the will’s freedom after it.
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The charm of history and its enigmatic lesson consist in the fact that, from age to age, nothing changes and yet everything is completely different.
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English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
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It is a bit embarrassing to have been concerned with the human problem all one’s life and find at the end that one has no more to offer by way of advice than ‘try to be a little kinder.’
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Writers write to influence their readers, their preachers, their auditors, but always, at bottom, to be more themselves.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
It takes two to make a murder. There are born victims, born to have their throats cut, as the cut-throats are born to be hanged.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Experience teaches only the teachable.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
I’m afraid of losing my obscurity. Genuineness only thrives in the dark. Like celery.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Perhaps it’s good for one to suffer. Can an artist do anything if he’s happy? Would he ever want to do anything? What is art, after all, but a protest against the horrible inclemency of life?
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Cynical realism is the intelligent man’s best excuse for doing nothing in an intolerable situation.
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Official dignity tends to increase in inverse ratio to the importance of the country in which the office is held.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Hell isn’t merely paved with good intentions; it’s walled and roofed with them. Yes, and furnished too.
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Feasts must be solemn and rare, or else they cease to be feasts.
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Consistency is contrary to nature, contrary to life. The only completely consistent people are dead.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Proverbs are always platitudes until you have personally experienced the truth of them.
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Man approaches the unattainable truth through a succession of errors.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
It’s with bad sentiments that one makes good novels.
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The most distressing thing that can happen to a prophet is to be proved wrong. The next most distressing thing is to be proved right.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
Happiness is a hard master, particularly other people’s happiness.
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Defined in psychological terms, a fanatic is a man who consciously over-compensates a secret doubt.
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Habit converts luxurious enjoyments into dull and daily necessities.
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Europe is so well gardened that it resembles a work of art, a scientific theory, a neat metaphysical system. Man has re-created Europe in his own image.
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I wanted to change the world. But I have found that the only thing one can be sure of changing is oneself.
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Speed, it seems to me, provides the one genuinely modern pleasure.
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Men do not learn much from the lessons of history and that is the most important of all the lessons of history.
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De Sade is the one completely consistent and thoroughgoing revolutionary of history.
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Orthodoxy is the diehard of the world of thought. It learns not, neither can it forget.
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Dream in a pragmatic way.
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A belief in hell and the knowledge that every ambition is doomed to frustration at the hands of a skeleton have never prevented the majority of human beings from behaving as though death were no more than an unfounded rumor.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
My fate cannot be mastered; it can only be collaborated with and thereby, to some extent, directed. Nor am I the captain of my soul; I am only its noisiest passenger.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
The author of the Iliad is either Homer or, if not Homer, somebody else of the same name.
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That men do not learn very much from the lessons of history is the most important of all the lessons of history.
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All gods are homemade, and it is we who pull their strings, and so, give them the power to pull ours.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
The most shocking fact about war is that its victims and its instruments are individual human beings, and that these individual beings are condemned by the monstrous conventions of politics to murder or be murdered in quarrels not their own.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
There is something curiously boring about somebody else’s happiness.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)
It was one of those evenings when men feel that truth, goodness and beauty are one. In the morning, when they commit their discovery to paper, when others read it written there, it looks wholly ridiculous.
English writer and philosopher (1894-1963)