True politeness consists in being easy one’s self, and in making every one about one as easy as one can.

Meaning of the quote

True politeness means being comfortable with yourself and trying to make everyone around you feel comfortable too. It's about being relaxed and friendly, not stiff or formal. If you're at ease, it will help the people around you feel at ease as well.

About Alexander Pope

Alexander Pope was a prominent English poet of the early 18th century, known for his satirical and discursive poetry, including works like The Rape of the Lock and An Essay on Criticism. He was also a renowned translator of Homer’s works and is often quoted in the Oxford Dictionary of Quotations.

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But Satan now is wiser than of yore, and tempts by making rich, not making poor.

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Charms strike the sight, but merit wins the soul.

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No woman ever hates a man for being in love with her, but many a woman hate a man for being a friend to her.

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Know then this truth, enough for man to know virtue alone is happiness below.

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‘Tis education forms the common mind; just as the twig is bent the tree’s inclined.

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Extremes in nature equal ends produce; In man they join to some mysterious use.

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Fools admire, but men of sense approve.

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There is a certain majesty in simplicity which is far above all the quaintness of wit.

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The ruling passion, be it what it will. The ruling passion conquers reason still.

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How happy is the blameless vestal’s lot? The world forgetting, by the world forgot.

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The difference is too nice – Where ends the virtue or begins the vice.

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They dream in courtship, but in wedlock wake.

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Some people will never learn anything, for this reason, because they understand everything too soon.

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English poet (1688-1744)

Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

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English poet (1688-1744)

Our passions are like convulsion fits, which, though they make us stronger for a time, leave us the weaker ever after.

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English poet (1688-1744)

To err is human; to forgive, divine.

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English poet (1688-1744)

Health consists with temperance alone.

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English poet (1688-1744)

In words, as fashions, the same rule will hold; Alike fantastic, if too new, or old: Be not the first by whom the new are tried, Nor yet the last to lay the old aside.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

A work of art that contains theories is like an object on which the price tag has been left.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Get place and wealth, if possible with grace; if not, by any means get wealth and place.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Genius creates, and taste preserves. Taste is the good sense of genius; without taste, genius is only sublime folly.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Beauties in vain their pretty eyes may roll; charms strike the sight, but merit wins the soul.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The same ambition can destroy or save, and make a patriot as it makes a knave.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Praise undeserved, is satire in disguise.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Order is heaven’s first law.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Trust not yourself, but your defects to know, make use of every friend and every foe.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Tis but a part we see, and not a whole.

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English poet (1688-1744)

And all who told it added something new, and all who heard it, made enlargements too.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Blessed is the man who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed was the ninth beatitude.

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English poet (1688-1744)

Wit is the lowest form of humor.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The worst of madmen is a saint run mad.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

So vast is art, so narrow human wit.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

For Forms of Government let fools contest; whatever is best administered is best.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

For modes of faith let graceless zealots fight, His can’t be wrong whose life is in the right.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Never was it given to mortal man – To lie so boldly as we women can.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

True politeness consists in being easy one’s self, and in making every one about one as easy as one can.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

‘Tis not enough your counsel still be true; Blunt truths more mischief than nice falsehoods do.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

On life’s vast ocean diversely we sail. Reasons the card, but passion the gale.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

To observations which ourselves we make, we grow more partial for th’ observer’s sake.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Many men have been capable of doing a wise thing, more a cunning thing, but very few a generous thing.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Never elated when someone’s oppressed, never dejected when another one’s blessed.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Virtue she finds too painful an endeavour, content to dwell in decencies for ever.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Men would be angels, angels would be gods.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

If a man’s character is to be abused there’s nobody like a relative to do the business.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

No one should be ashamed to admit they are wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that they are wiser today than they were yesterday.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Never find fault with the absent.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Not always actions show the man; we find who does a kindness is not therefore kind.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

A God without dominion, providence, and final causes, is nothing else but fate and nature.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

A person who is too nice an observer of the business of the crowd, like one who is too curious in observing the labor of bees, will often be stung for his curiosity.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Teach me to feel another’s woe, to hide the fault I see, that mercy I to others show, that mercy show to me.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Be not the first by whom the new are tried, Nor yet the last to lay the old aside.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Nature and nature’s laws lay hid in the night. God said, Let Newton be! and all was light!

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The way of the Creative works through change and transformation, so that each thing receives its true nature and destiny and comes into permanent accord with the Great Harmony: this is what furthers and what perseveres.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

But blind to former as to future fate, what mortal knows his pre-existent state?

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

And die of nothing but a rage to live.

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English poet (1688-1744)

I find myself hoping a total end of all the unhappy divisions of mankind by party-spirit, which at best is but the madness of many for the gain of a few.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

One science only will one genius fit; so vast is art, so narrow human wit.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Know then thyself, presume not God to scan; The proper study of mankind is man.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Behold the child, by Nature’s kindly law pleased with a rattle, tickled with a straw.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The world forgetting, by the world forgot.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Pride is still aiming at the best houses: Men would be angels, angels would be gods. Aspiring to be gods, if angels fell; aspiring to be angels men rebel.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

True ease in writing comes from art, not chance, as those who move easiest have learned to dance.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Honor and shame from no condition rise. Act well your part: there all the honor lies.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

How shall I lose the sin, yet keep the sense, and love the offender, yet detest the offence?

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The bookful blockhead, ignorantly read With loads of learned lumber in his head.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Who shall decide when doctors disagree, And soundest casuists doubt, like you and me?

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Woman’s at best a contradiction still.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

An honest man’s the noblest work of God.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Lo, what huge heaps of littleness around!

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

And, after all, what is a lie? ‘Tis but the truth in a masquerade.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

All nature is but art unknown to thee.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Education forms the common mind. Just as the twig is bent, the tree’s inclined.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The learned is happy, nature to explore; The fool is happy, that he knows no more.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Of Manners gentle, of Affections mild; In Wit a man; Simplicity, a child.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

All are but parts of one stupendous whole, Whose body Nature is, and God the soul.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Some old men, continually praise the time of their youth. In fact, you would almost think that there were no fools in their days, but unluckily they themselves are left as an example.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Hope travels through, nor quits us when we die.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Hope springs eternal in the human breast: Man never is, but always To be Blest.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

For fools rush in where angels fear to tread.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The hungry judges soon the sentence sign, and wretches hang that jurymen may dine.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The greatest magnifying glasses in the world are a man’s own eyes when they look upon his own person.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Whoever thinks a faultless piece to see, Thinks what ne’er was, nor is, nor e’er shall be.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

How prone to doubt, how cautious are the wise!

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

At ev’ry word a reputation dies.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The most positive men are the most credulous.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

A wit with dunces, and a dunce with wits.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

To be angry is to revenge the faults of others on ourselves.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Not to go back is somewhat to advance, and men must walk, at least, before they dance.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Lo! The poor Indian, whose untutored mind sees God in clouds, or hears him in the wind.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Lulled in the countless chambers of the brain, our thoughts are linked by many a hidden chain; awake but one, and in, what myriads rise!

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Gentle dullness ever loves a joke.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

A little learning is a dangerous thing; Drink deep, or taste not the Pierian spring.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Those move easiest who have learn’d to dance.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Satan is wiser now than before, and tempts by making rich instead of poor.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Party-spirit at best is but the madness of many for the gain of a few.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Men must be taught as if you taught them not, and things unknown proposed as things forgot.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Fondly we think we honor merit then, When we but praise ourselves in other men.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Act well your part, there all the honour lies.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The vulgar boil, the learned roast, an egg.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Histories are more full of examples of the fidelity of dogs than of friends.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Slave to no sect, who takes no private road, But looks through Nature up to Nature’s God.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Happy the man whose wish and care a few paternal acres bound, content to breathe his native air in his own ground.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Like Cato, give his little senate laws, and sit attentive to his own applause.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

The proper study of Mankind is Man.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Remembrance and reflection how allied. What thin partitions divides sense from thought.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

What some call health, if purchased by perpetual anxiety about diet, isn’t much better than tedious disease.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

On wrongs swift vengeance waits.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Man never thinks himself happy, but when he enjoys those things which others want or desire.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Is pride, the never-failing vice of fools.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)

Passions are the gales of life.

Alexander Pope

English poet (1688-1744)