While gossip among women is universally ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men, especially if it is about women, is called theory, or idea, or fact.
Meaning of the quote
This quote points out that people often view gossip between women as silly and unimportant, but when men gossip, especially about women, it is seen as serious and factual. The quote suggests that the same kinds of conversations are treated very differently depending on who is doing the talking.
About Andrea Dworkin
Andrea Dworkin was an influential American feminist writer and activist who analyzed the role of sexual violence against women in patriarchal society. She wrote extensively on a wide range of topics, from literature to social issues, and her work had a significant impact on feminist discourse.
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
Money speaks, but it speaks with a male voice.
American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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American feminist writer (1946-2005)
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