And I know when I was younger, and still, I always marvel at what I feel is different from what I’m told that I’m supposed to feel.

Meaning of the quote

This quote is describing how people, especially when they are younger, often feel things that are different from what they are told they should feel. The actor is saying that he is amazed or "marvels" at the fact that his own personal feelings and experiences are not always the same as what others expect or tell him he should feel. He is acknowledging that his inner thoughts and emotions can be unique and different from the outside world's expectations.

About Andrew McCarthy

Andrew McCarthy is an American actor, travel writer, and television director best known for his roles in 1980s films like St. Elmo’s Fire and Pretty in Pink. He’s also worked as a director, including on the popular show Orange Is the New Black.

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