Every man must define his identity against his mother. If he does not, he just falls back into her and is swallowed up.
Meaning of the quote
The quote suggests that as a person grows up, they need to figure out who they are as an individual, separate from their mother. If they don't do this, they might end up relying too much on their mother and losing their sense of self.
About Camille Paglia
Camille Paglia is an American academic, social critic, and feminist who was a professor at the University of the Arts in Philadelphia until 2024. She is known for her critical views on modern culture, feminism, and post-structuralism, and has authored several books, including the influential ‘Sexual Personae: Art and Decadence from Nefertiti to Emily Dickinson’.
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