The only kind of dignity which is genuine is that which is not diminished by the indifference of others.

Meaning of the quote

The quote means that true dignity or self-worth comes from within, not from how others treat you. Even if people don't care about you or pay attention to you, your own sense of dignity and self-respect should not be affected. Real dignity is something that cannot be taken away by the indifference or disregard of others.

About Dag Hammarskjold

Dag Hjalmar Agne Carl Hammarskjold was a Swedish economist and diplomat who served as the second Secretary-General of the United Nations from April 1953 until his death in a plane crash in September 1961. As of 2024, he remains the youngest person to have held the post, having been only 47 years old when he was appointed.

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The pursuit of peace and progress cannot end in a few years in either victory or defeat. The pursuit of peace and progress, with its trials and its errors, its successes and its setbacks, can never be relaxed and never abandoned.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Never, for the sake of peace and quiet, deny your own experience or convictions.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The myths have always condemned those who “looked back.” Condemned them, whatever the paradise may have been which they were leaving. Hence this shadow over each departure from your decision.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Destiny is something not be to desired and not to be avoided. a mystery not contrary to reason, for it implies that the world, and the course of human history, have meaning.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

If only I may grow: firmer, simpler, quieter, warmer.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Those who invoke history will certainly be heard by history. And they will have to accept its verdict.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Life only demands from you the strength that you possess. Only one feat is possible; not to run away.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The breaking wave and the muscle as it contracts obey the same law. Delicate line gathers the body’s total strength in a bold balance. Shall my soul meet so severe a curve, journeying on its way to form?

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The longest journey is the journey inwards. Of him who has chosen his destiny, Who has started upon his quest for the source of his being.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

It is easy to be nice, even to an enemy – from lack of character.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Time always seems long to the child who is waiting – for Christmas, for next summer, for becoming a grownup: long also when he surrenders his whole soul to each moment of a happy day.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Your position never gives you the right to command. It only imposes on you the duty of so living your life that others can receive your orders without being humiliated.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Time goes by, reputation increases, ability declines.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

To forgive oneself? No, that doesn’t work: we have to be forgiven. But we can only believe this is possible if we ourselves can forgive.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The only kind of dignity which is genuine is that which is not diminished by the indifference of others.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Praise those of your critics for whom nothing is up to standard.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Forgiveness is the answer to the child’s dream of a miracle by which what is broken is made whole again, what is soiled is made clean again.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

In the last analysis, it is our conception of death which decides our answers to all the questions that life puts to us.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

“Freedom from fear” could be said to sum up the whole philosophy of human rights.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

I never discuss discussions.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

It is when we all play safe that we create a world of utmost insecurity.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

It is more noble to give yourself completely to one individual than to labor diligently for the salvation of the masses.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Maturity – among other things, the unclouded happiness of the child at play, who takes it for granted that he is at one with his play-mates.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

A task becomes a duty from the moment you suspect it to be an essential part of that integrity which alone entitles a man to assume responsibility.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Only he deserves power who every day justifies it.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The more faithfully you listen to the voices within you, the better you will hear what is sounding outside.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

I am the vessel. The draft is God’s. And God is the thirsty one.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The more we do, the more we can do; the more busy we are, the more leisure we have.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

If even dying is to be made a social function, then, grant me the favor of sneaking out on tiptoe without disturbing the party.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Constant attention by a good nurse may be just as important as a major operation by a surgeon.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Never measure the height of a mountain until you have reached the top. Then you will see how low it was.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

There is a point at which everything becomes simple and there is no longer any question of choice, because all you have staked will be lost if you look back. Life’s point of no return.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Your body must become familiar with its death – in all its possible forms and degrees – as a self-evident, imminent, and emotionally neutral step on the way towards the goal you have found worthy of your life.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

God does not die on the day when we cease to believe in a personal deity, but we die on the day when our lives cease to be illumined by the steady radiance, renewed daily, of a wonder, the source of which is beyond all reason.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Never look down to test the ground before taking your next step; only he who keeps his eye fixed on the far horizon will find the right road.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Is life so wretched? Isn’t it rather your hands which are too small, your vision which is muddled? You are the one who must grow up.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Everything will be all right – you know when? When people, just people, stop thinking of the United Nations as a weird Picasso abstraction and see it as a drawing they made themselves.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Do not seek death. Death will find you. But seek the road which makes death a fulfillment.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

It is playing safe that we create a world of utmost insecurity.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Life yields only to the conqueror. Never accept what can be gained by giving in. You will be living off stolen goods, and your muscles will atrophy.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Your cravings as a human animal do not become a prayer just because it is God whom you ask to attend to them.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Never for the sake of peace and quiet deny your convictions.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

The Assembly has witnessed over the last weeks how historical truth is established; once an allegation has been repeated a few times, it is no longer an allegation, it is an established fact, even if no evidence has been brought out in order to support it.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

Friendship needs no words – it is solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)

I believe that we should die with decency so that at least decency will survive.

Dag Hammarskjold

Swedish diplomat, economist, and author (1905-1961)