Only people who have been allowed to practise freedom can have the grown-up look in their eyes.
Meaning of the quote
When people are free to make their own choices and do what they want, they gain a certain maturity and understanding in their eyes. This "grown-up look" comes from experiencing the responsibilities and consequences of being free. Those who have not had the chance to practice freedom won't have this same level of maturity and awareness.
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