Life is always a tightrope or a feather bed. Give me the tightrope.

Meaning of the quote

Life is full of two types of situations - risky and comfortable. The quote suggests that the writer prefers the risky path, even though it's more challenging. They would rather take on a difficult task and face the risk head-on than choose the easy, comfortable option. The tightrope represents the risky, adventurous path, while the feather bed symbolizes the safe, comfortable choice. The writer is saying they would choose the tightrope because they thrive on the excitement and sense of accomplishment that comes from overcoming challenges.

About Edith Wharton

Edith Wharton was an American writer and designer who drew upon her insider’s knowledge of the upper-class New York ‘aristocracy’ to portray the lives and morals of the Gilded Age. She was the first woman to win the Pulitzer Prize in Fiction for her novel, The Age of Innocence, and was inducted into the National Women’s Hall of Fame in 1996. Wharton also wrote other well-known works, including The House of Mirth and the novella Ethan Frome.

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