Ambivalence is a wonderful tune to dance to. It has a rhythm all its own.
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Ambivalence is like a special dance with two different rhythms. It can feel both good and bad at the same time, like you're moving to two different songs. But that's what makes it interesting - you get to experience both feelings and find your own unique way to dance to them.
About Erica Jong
Erica Jong, an American novelist, satirist, and poet, is best known for her 1973 novel ‘Fear of Flying,’ which sparked controversy for its portrayal of female sexuality and contributed significantly to the development of second-wave feminism. The book has sold over 37 million copies worldwide, making it a literary phenomenon.
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