When we argue for our limitations, we get to keep them.

Meaning of the quote

When we make excuses for why we can't do something, we end up stuck with those limitations. Instead of trying to improve or overcome our weaknesses, we convince ourselves that we can't change. But if we're willing to challenge our own limitations, we have a better chance of growing and achieving more.

About Evelyn Waugh

Evelyn Waugh was an acclaimed English writer known for his novels, biographies, and travel books. He was a master of prose and a prolific journalist, with works like Brideshead Revisited and the Sword of Honour trilogy cementing his status as one of the great 20th-century literary figures.

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