There can be no doubt that the average man blames much more than he praises. His instinct is to blame. If he is satisfied he says nothing; if he is not, he most illogically kicks up a row.

Meaning of the quote

People often complain about things more than they give praise. This is because they're more likely to speak up when they're unhappy, but stay quiet when they're satisfied. Even when their complaints don't make sense, they still loudly express their frustration.

About Golda Meir

Golda Meir was the first and only female prime minister of Israel, serving from 1969 to 1974. She was born in Ukraine, immigrated to the United States as a child, and later moved to Mandatory Palestine, where she became involved in the Labor Zionist movement and eventually became a key figure in the establishment of the State of Israel.

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Let me tell you something that we Israelis have against Moses. He took us 40 years through the desert in order to bring us to the one spot in the Middle East that has no oil!

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

To be successful, a woman has to be much better at her job than a man.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

We do not rejoice in victories. We rejoice when a new kind of cotton is grown and when strawberries bloom in Israel.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Pessimism is a luxury that a Jew can never allow himself.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

We Jews have a secret weapon in our struggle with the Arabs; we have no place to go.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

As President Nixon says, presidents can do almost anything, and President Nixon has done many things that nobody would have thought of doing.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

The public history of modern art is the story of conventional people not knowing what they are dealing with.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

The Soviet government is the most realistic regime in the world – no ideals.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

We have always said that in our war with the Arabs we had a secret weapon – no alternative.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Glorious bouquets and storms of applause are the trimmings which every artist naturally enjoys.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Being seventy is not a sin.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

A leader who doesn’t hesitate before he sends his nation into battle is not fit to be a leader.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

We don’t thrive on military acts. We do them because we have to, and thank God we are efficient.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Men who have reached and passed forty-five, have a look as if waiting for the secret of the other world, and as if they were perfectly sure of having found out the secret of this.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

There can be no doubt that the average man blames much more than he praises. His instinct is to blame. If he is satisfied he says nothing; if he is not, he most illogically kicks up a row.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Fashion is an imposition, a reign on freedom.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Authority poisons everybody who takes authority on himself.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Don’t be humble… you’re not that great.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Old age is like a plane flying through a storm. Once you’re aboard, there’s nothing you can do.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

It’s no accident many accuse me of conducting public affairs with my heart instead of my head. Well, what if I do? Those who don’t know how to weep with their whole heart don’t know how to laugh either.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Above all, this country is our own. Nobody has to get up in the morning and worry what his neighbors think of him. Being a Jew is no problem here.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

I don’t know why you use a fancy French word like detente when there’s a good English phrase for it – cold war.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Ability hits the mark where presumption overshoots and diffidence falls short.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

The dog that trots about finds a bone.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

To be or not to be is not a question of compromise. Either you be or you don’t be.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

You’ll never find a better sparring partner than adversity.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

I must govern the clock, not be governed by it.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

There’s no difference between one’s killing and making decisions that will send others to kill. It’s exactly the same thing, or even worse.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

It is true we have won all our wars, but we have paid for them. We don’t want victories anymore.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

One cannot and must not try to erase the past merely because it does not fit the present.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Whether women are better than men I cannot say – but I can say they are certainly no worse.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

The Egyptians could run to Egypt, the Syrians into Syria. The only place we could run was into the sea, and before we did that we might as well fight.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Those who don’t know how to weep with their whole heart, don’t know how to laugh either.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

I never did anything alone. Whatever was accomplished in this country was accomplished collectively.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Women’s liberation is just a lot of foolishness. It’s men who are discriminated against. They can’t bear children. And no one is likely to do anything about that.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

I can honestly say that I was never affected by the question of the success of an undertaking. If I felt it was the right thing to do, I was for it regardless of the possible outcome.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974

Not being beautiful was the true blessing. Not being beautiful forced me to develop my inner resources. The pretty girl has a handicap to overcome.

Golda Meir

Prime Minister of Israel from 1969 to 1974