When you deal with your brother, be pleasant, but get a witness.
Meaning of the quote
When you deal with your brother, be kind and friendly, but make sure to have someone else there as a witness. This advice from the Greek poet Hesiod suggests that even when you are trying to be nice, it's important to have a third party present in case there are any disagreements or problems that come up. That way, you can have someone else who can confirm what happened.
About Hesiod
Hesiod was an ancient Greek poet who lived around 700 BC, around the same time as Homer. He is known for his works Theogony, which tells the origins of the gods, and Works and Days, a poem that describes the five Ages of Man and offers advice and wisdom.
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