The notion that one will not survive a particular catastrophe is, in general terms, a comfort since it is equivalent to abolishing the catastrophe.

Meaning of the quote

When something really bad happens, it can sometimes feel comforting to think that we won't survive it. This is because if we don't survive, the catastrophe or terrible event is basically gone or "abolished." Thinking this way can provide a sense of relief, even though it may not be the healthiest perspective.

About Iris Murdoch

Iris Murdoch was an acclaimed Irish and British novelist and philosopher known for her insightful works on morality, relationships, and the human psyche. She received numerous prestigious awards, including the Booker Prize, and was made a Dame by Queen Elizabeth II for her contributions to literature.

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