One can not love without opening oneself, and opening oneself, that’s taking the risk of suffering. One does not have control.

Meaning of the quote

To love someone, you need to let them in and allow them to see the real you. But when you open up, you also risk getting hurt. That's because when you love someone, you can't fully control what happens. You have to be willing to take that chance.

About Isabelle Adjani

Isabelle Adjani is a renowned French actress and singer who has won numerous awards, including five Cu00e9sar Awards for Best Actress. She is the only performer to have achieved this feat and has also received two Academy Award nominations for her roles in foreign-language films. Adjani’s impressive filmography spans over four decades, showcasing her versatility and talent across a wide range of genres and characters.

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