The most important thing to do is really listen.

Meaning of the quote

Listening is one of the most important things you can do. It means paying close attention to what someone is saying, not just hearing the words, but really trying to understand their meaning. When you listen carefully, you can learn so much and have better conversations. Listening well is a skill that takes practice, but it's worth it because it helps you connect with others and understand them better.

About Itzhak Perlman

Itzhak Perlman, an Israeli-American violinist, has performed worldwide and received numerous accolades, including 16 Grammy Awards, 4 Emmy Awards, and the Presidential Medal of Freedom. He has conducted prestigious orchestras and even played at the White House and presidential inauguration.

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Trust your ability!

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Child prodigy is a curse because you’ve got all those terrible possibilities.

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This young wine may have a lot of tannins now, but in five or 10 years it is going to be spectacular, despite the fact that right now it tastes like crude oil. You know this is how it is supposed to taste at this stage of development.

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That’s the goal, to survive your gift.

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Itzhak Perlman

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Itzhak Perlman

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Itzhak Perlman

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There are people who are uncanny, who are finished products at a young age. I wasn’t, thank God.

Itzhak Perlman

Israeli-American violinist and conductor (born 1945)

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Itzhak Perlman

Israeli-American violinist and conductor (born 1945)

That makes classical music work, the ability to improvise.

Itzhak Perlman

Israeli-American violinist and conductor (born 1945)

Another thing that I don’t like to do is show too much how it goes. I do it once in a blue moon. Sometimes there are lessons when I don’t pick up a violin at all.

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A sponge has that much absorbent capability and after a while you can pour water over it and nothing stays.

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