Circumstances define us; they force us onto one road or another, and then they punish us for it.

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The quote means that the situations and events we face in life shape who we are and the choices we make. These circumstances push us to go down certain paths, and then they make us suffer the consequences of the decisions we end up taking. Our surroundings and the things that happen to us have a big impact on the person we become.

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