A place belongs forever to whoever claims it hardest, remembers it most obsessively, wrenches it from itself, shapes it, renders it, loves it so radically that he remakes it in his own image.

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A place will always belong to the person who cares about it the most, remembers it constantly, and changes it to make it their own. They love the place so much that they reshape it to look like how they see it in their mind.

About Joan Didion

Joan Didion was an iconic American writer and journalist, known as one of the pioneers of New Journalism. She had a prolific career, writing insightful essays about the counterculture of the 1960s, Hollywood, and the culture of California. Didion’s work also explored the subtext of political rhetoric and US foreign policy in Latin America.

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