When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship.

Meaning of the quote

The quote means that when you and your partner make decisions or do things for your marriage, you're not really doing it just for each other. Instead, you're doing it to help your whole relationship be stronger and more united. It's about putting the relationship itself first, not just your own individual needs.

About Joseph Campbell

Joseph Campbell was an American writer and professor who specialized in comparative mythology and religion. He is best known for his book “The Hero with a Thousand Faces,” which discusses the universal hero’s journey found in world mythologies. Campbell’s ideas have influenced many modern writers and artists, including George Lucas’s Star Wars saga.

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Is the system going to flatten you out and deny you your humanity, or are you going to be able to make use of the system to the attainment of human purposes?

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Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging.

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Your life is the fruit of your own doing. You have no one to blame but yourself.

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Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it. The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning.

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American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Every religion is true one way or another. It is true when understood metaphorically. But when it gets stuck in its own metaphors, interpreting them as facts, then you are in trouble.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

The goal of life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with Nature.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

What each must seek in his life never was on land or sea. It is something out of his own unique potentiality for experience, something that never has been and never could have been experienced by anyone else.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

We’re so engaged in doing things to achieve purposes of outer value that we forget the inner value, the rapture that is associated with being alive, is what it is all about.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were only walls.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

One way or another, we all have to find what best fosters the flowering of our humanity in this contemporary life, and dedicate ourselves to that.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

When people get married because they think it’s a long-time love affair, they’ll be divorced very soon, because all love affairs end in disappointment. But marriage is a recognition of a spiritual identity.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Love is a friendship set to music.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

God is a metaphor for that which trancends all levels of intellectual thought. It’s as simple as that.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you’re sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

When we quit thinking primarily about ourselves and our own self-preservation, we undergo a truly heroic transformation of consciousness.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Participate joyfully in the sorrows of the world. We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Find a place inside where there’s joy, and the joy will burn out the pain.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

I don’t believe people are looking for the meaning of life as much as they are looking for the experience of being alive.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

I don’t have to have faith, I have experience.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

Your sacred space is where you can find yourself again and again.

Joseph Campbell

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Myths are public dreams, dreams are private myths.

Joseph Campbell

American mythologist, writer and lecturer (1904-1987)

I think the person who takes a job in order to live – that is to say, for the money – has turned himself into a slave.

Joseph Campbell

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