It’s a terrible thing to be alone – yes it is – it is – but don’t lower your mask until you have another mask prepared beneath – as terrible as you like – but a mask.

Meaning of the quote

This quote is telling us that it's scary to be by yourself, but we should always have another "mask" or way to hide our true feelings ready before taking off the one we're wearing. Even if the new mask is just as scary, it's important to have it ready so we're not completely exposed. The author wants us to understand that we all wear different "masks" to hide how we really feel sometimes, and that's okay - as long as we have another one ready to put on when we need it.

About Katherine Mansfield

Katherine Mansfield was a renowned New Zealand writer and critic who played a significant role in the modernist movement. Her works, published in 25 languages, are celebrated worldwide. Born in Wellington, Mansfield had a rich literary career in England, where she associated with notable figures like D.H. Lawrence and Virginia Woolf.

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Life never becomes a habit to me. It’s always a marvel.

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Could we change our attitude, we should not only see life differently, but life itself would come to be different.

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Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy, you can’t build on it it’s only good for wallowing in.

Katherine Mansfield

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What do you want most to do? That’s what I have to keep asking myself, in the face of difficulties.

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Katherine Mansfield

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If only one could tell true love from false love as one can tell mushrooms from toadstools.

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New Zealand author (1888-1923)

Whenever I prepare for a journey I prepare as though for death. Should I never return, all is in order.

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I always felt that the great high privilege, relief and comfort of friendship was that one had to explain nothing.

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I love the rain. I want the feeling of it on my face.

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