The appalling thing is the degree of charity women are capable of. You see it all the time… love lavished on absolute fools. Love’s a charity ward, you know.

Meaning of the quote

This quote suggests that women often show a surprising amount of kindness and care, even towards people who don't deserve it. The writer sees this as a problem, as he believes women sometimes waste their love on people who are not worthy of it. He compares love to a charity ward, where people receive help and support, even if they haven't earned it.

About Lawrence Durrell

Lawrence Durrell, the renowned British novelist, poet, and travel writer, led a fascinating life. Born in India to colonial parents, he went on to publish acclaimed works like the Alexandria Quartet and the Avignon Quintet. Despite his tumultuous personal life, marked by four marriages, Durrell’s literary achievements cemented his status as one of the most celebrated writers in 20th century England.

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Journeys, like artists, are born and not made. A thousand differing circumstances contribute to them, few of them willed or determined by the will-whatever we may think.

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Music is only love looking for words.

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Old age is an insult. It’s like being smacked.

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It takes a lot of energy and a lot of neurosis to write a novel. If you were really sensible, you’d do something else.

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Travel can be one of the most rewarding forms of introspection.

Lawrence Durrell

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History is an endless repetition of the wrong way of living.

Lawrence Durrell

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Guilt always hurries towards its complement, punishment; only there does its satisfaction lie.

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Like all young men I set out to be a genius, but mercifully laughter intervened.

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No one can go on being a rebel too long without turning into an autocrat.

Lawrence Durrell

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Our inventions mirror our secret wishes.

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I had become, with the approach of night, once more aware of loneliness and time – those two companions without whom no journey can yield us anything.

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Perhaps our only sickness is to desire a truth which we cannot bear rather than to rest content with the fictions we manufacture out of each other.

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I imagine, therefore I belong and am free.

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I’m trying to die correctly, but it’s very difficult, you know.

Lawrence Durrell

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A woman’s best love letters are always written to the man she is betraying.

Lawrence Durrell

British novelist, poet, dramatist, and travel writer

It is not love that is blind, but jealousy.

Lawrence Durrell

British novelist, poet, dramatist, and travel writer

A city becomes a world when one loves one of it’s inhabitants.

Lawrence Durrell

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The appalling thing is the degree of charity women are capable of. You see it all the time… love lavished on absolute fools. Love’s a charity ward, you know.

Lawrence Durrell

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Everyone loathes his own country and countrymen if he is any sort of artist.

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Truth disappears with the telling of it.

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The richest love is that which submits to the arbitration of time.

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We are the children of our landscape; it dictates behavior and even thought in the measure to which we are responsive to it.

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Music was invented to confirm human loneliness.

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For us artists there waits the joyous compromise through art with all that wounded or defeated us in daily life; in this way, not to evade destiny, as the ordinary people try to do, but to fulfil it in its true potential – the imagination.

Lawrence Durrell

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