You’ll never get ahead of anyone as long as you try to get even with him.

Meaning of the quote

This quote means that you won't be able to make progress in your own life if you're always focused on trying to get back at or punish someone else for something they did. If you spend your time and energy trying to get even with others, you'll be held back from moving forward and achieving your own goals.

About Lou Holtz

Lou Holtz is a legendary American football coach who had a storied career spanning multiple universities and the NFL. He led several teams to bowl games and top 15 rankings, and his 1988 Notre Dame team won the national championship. After retiring from coaching, Holtz worked as a TV college football analyst for CBS and ESPN.

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No one has ever drowned in sweat.

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A lifetime contract for a coach means if you’re ahead in the third quarter and moving the ball, they can’t fire you.

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If you try to fight the course, it will beat you.

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In the successful organization, no detail is too small to escape close attention.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

I can’t believe that God put us on this earth to be ordinary.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

A bird doesn’t sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

If what you did yesterday seems big, you haven’t done anything today.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

I never learn anything talking. I only learn things when I ask questions.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

Coaching is nothing more than eliminating mistakes before you get fired.

Lou Holtz

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When all is said and done, more is said than done.

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How you respond to the challenge in the second half will determine what you become after the game, whether you are a winner or a loser.

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It is a fine thing to have ability, but the ability to discover ability in others is the true test.

Lou Holtz

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The problem with having a sense of humor is often that people you use it on aren’t in a very good mood.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)

On this team, we’re all united in a common goal: to keep my job.

Lou Holtz

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Motivation is simple. You eliminate those who are not motivated.

Lou Holtz

American football player, coach, and analyst (born 1937)