One of the oldest human needs is having someone to wonder where you are when you don’t come home at night.

Meaning of the quote

Having someone who cares about you and worries when you're not home at night is one of the most basic human needs. It shows that you matter to someone and that they want to make sure you're safe and sound. This feeling of being looked after and having someone who notices your absence is something that has been important to people for a very long time.

About Margaret Mead

Margaret Mead was a renowned American anthropologist who shared her insights on cultural attitudes towards sex in the 1960s. She earned prestigious degrees, served as the president of the American Association for the Advancement of Science, and had a significant influence on the sexual revolution through her groundbreaking work.

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Thanks to television, for the first time the young are seeing history made before it is censored by their elders.

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Prayer does not use up artificial energy, doesn’t burn up any fossil fuel, doesn’t pollute. Neither does song, neither does love, neither does the dance.

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I do not believe in using women in combat, because females are too fierce.

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Instead of needing lots of children, we need high-quality children.

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A city is a place where there is no need to wait for next week to get the answer to a question, to taste the food of any country, to find new voices to listen to and familiar ones to listen to again.

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Nobody has ever before asked the nuclear family to live all by itself in a box the way we do. With no relatives, no support, we’ve put it in an impossible situation.

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I must admit that I personally measure success in terms of the contributions an individual makes to her or his fellow human beings.

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Having two bathrooms ruined the capacity to co-operate.

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Never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world. For, indeed, that’s all who ever have.

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The solution to adult problems tomorrow depends on large measure upon how our children grow up today.

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We are now at a point where we must educate our children in what no one knew yesterday, and prepare our schools for what no one knows yet.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Always remember that you are absolutely unique. Just like everyone else.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

As long as any adult thinks that he, like the parents and teachers of old, can become introspective, invoking his own youth to understand the youth before him, he is lost.

Margaret Mead

American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Many societies have educated their male children on the simple device of teaching them not to be women.

Margaret Mead

American anthropologist (1901--1978)

It is utterly false and cruelly arbitrary to put all the play and learning into childhood, all the work into middle age, and all the regrets into old age.

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A small group of thoughtful people could change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.

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We won’t have a society if we destroy the environment.

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We have nowhere else to go… this is all we have.

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Sooner or later I’m going to die, but I’m not going to retire.

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I was brought up to believe that the only thing worth doing was to add to the sum of accurate information in the world.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Life in the twentieth century is like a parachute jump: you have to get it right the first time.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

The pains of childbirth were altogether different from the enveloping effects of other kinds of pain. These were pains one could follow with one’s mind.

Margaret Mead

American anthropologist (1901--1978)

I learned the value of hard work by working hard.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Instead of being presented with stereotypes by age, sex, color, class, or religion, children must have the opportunity to learn that within each range, some people are loathsome and some are delightful.

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And when our baby stirs and struggles to be born it compels humility: what we began is now its own.

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It may be necessary temporarily to accept a lesser evil, but one must never label a necessary evil as good.

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If we are to achieve a richer culture, rich in contrasting values, we must recognize the whole gamut of human potentialities, and so weave a less arbitrary social fabric, one in which each diverse human gift will find a fitting place.

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Fathers are biological necessities, but social accidents.

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The way to do fieldwork is never to come up for air until it is all over.

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Our humanity rests upon a series of learned behaviors, woven together into patterns that are infinitely fragile and never directly inherited.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

It is an open question whether any behavior based on fear of eternal punishment can be regarded as ethical or should be regarded as merely cowardly.

Margaret Mead

American anthropologist (1901--1978)

I have a respect for manners as such, they are a way of dealing with people you don’t agree with or like.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Women want mediocre men, and men are working to be as mediocre as possible.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.

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Sister is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once the sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship.

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I was wise enough to never grow up while fooling most people into believing I had.

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Every time we liberate a woman, we liberate a man.

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)

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American anthropologist (1901--1978)