I want to be the white man’s brother, not his brother-in-law.
Meaning of the quote
Martin Luther King, Jr. wanted to be seen as an equal to white people, not just someone related to them through marriage. He wanted true brotherly friendship and respect, not just a distant family connection. King believed that black people and white people should be truly equal, not just pretend to be family.
More quotes from Martin Luther King, Jr.
All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem.
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
I just want to do God’s will. And he’s allowed me to go to the mountain. And I’ve looked over, and I’ve seen the promised land! I may not get there with you, but I want you to know tonight that we as a people will get to the promised land.
Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.
The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically. Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education.
The sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality.
I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made straight and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.
Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our freedom. A man can’t ride you unless your back is bent.
Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.
The moral arc of the universe bends at the elbow of justice.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
A nation or civilization that continues to produce soft-minded men purchases its own spiritual death on the installment plan.
The art of acceptance is the art of making someone who has just done you a small favor wish that he might have done you a greater one.
Pity may represent little more than the impersonal concern which prompts the mailing of a check, but true sympathy is the personal concern which demands the giving of one’s soul.
An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity.
We are not makers of history. We are made by history.
To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.
Means we use must be as pure as the ends we seek.
It is incontestable and deplorable that Negroes have committed crimes; but they are derivative crimes. They are born of the greater crimes of the white society.
The ultimate tragedy is not the oppression and cruelty by the bad people but the silence over that by the good people.
Wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows.
Science investigates religion interprets. Science gives man knowledge which is power religion gives man wisdom which is control.
Nonviolence is a powerful and just weapon. which cuts without wounding and ennobles the man who wields it. It is a sword that heals.
We must use time creatively.
Seeing is not always believing.
Almost always, the creative dedicated minority has made the world better.
Property is intended to serve life, and no matter how much we surround it with rights and respect, it has no personal being. It is part of the earth man walks on. It is not man.
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
Law and order exist for the purpose of establishing justice and when they fail in this purpose they become the dangerously structured dams that block the flow of social progress.
We may have all come on different ships, but we’re in the same boat now.
Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.
Whatever your life’s work is, do it well. A man should do his job so well that the living, the dead, and the unborn could do it no better.
There can be no deep disappointment where there is not deep love.
We will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important.
There is nothing more tragic than to find an individual bogged down in the length of life, devoid of breadth.
The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace and brotherhood.
We have guided missiles and misguided men.
War is a poor chisel to carve out tomorrow.
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people.
I submit that an individual who breaks the law that conscience tells him is unjust and willingly accepts the penalty by staying in jail to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the very highest respect for law.
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.
A man can’t ride your back unless it’s bent.
Man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love.
If we are to go forward, we must go back and rediscover those precious values – that all reality hinges on moral foundations and that all reality has spiritual control.
The limitation of riots, moral questions aside, is that they cannot win and their participants know it. Hence, rioting is not revolutionary but reactionary because it invites defeat. It involves an emotional catharsis, but it must be followed by a sense of futility.
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.
Rarely do we find men who willingly engage in hard, solid thinking. There is an almost universal quest for easy answers and half-baked solutions. Nothing pains some people more than having to think.
A lie cannot live.
In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal.
A nation that continues year after year to spend more money on military defense than on programs of social uplift is approaching spiritual doom.
At the center of non-violence stands the principle of love.
A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus.
Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.
An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for the law.
We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.
The past is prophetic in that it asserts loudly that wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows.
All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence.
Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted.
He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it.
Discrimination is a hellhound that gnaws at Negroes in every waking moment of their lives to remind them that the lie of their inferiority is accepted as truth in the society dominating them.
I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit together at the table of brotherhood.
Philanthropy is commendable, but it must not cause the philanthropist to overlook the circumstances of economic injustice which make philanthropy necessary.
Nonviolence means avoiding not only external physical violence but also internal violence of spirit. You not only refuse to shoot a man, but you refuse to hate him.
The Negro needs the white man to free him from his fears. The white man needs the Negro to free him from his guilt.
We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.
Everything that we see is a shadow cast by that which we do not see.
I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.
We must build dikes of courage to hold back the flood of fear.
We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.
I want to be the white man’s brother, not his brother-in-law.
Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.
I submit to you that if a man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.
The quality, not the longevity, of one’s life is what is important.
The time is always right to do what is right.
A riot is at bottom the language of the unheard.
One of the greatest casualties of the war in Vietnam is the Great Society… shot down on the battlefield of Vietnam.
The hottest place in Hell is reserved for those who remain neutral in times of great moral conflict.
I look to a day when people will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.
If a man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.
A riot is the language of the unheard.
Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity.
I am not interested in power for power’s sake, but I’m interested in power that is moral, that is right and that is good.
Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be. This is the interrelated structure of reality.
The question is not whether we will be extremists, but what kind of extremists we will be… The nation and the world are in dire need of creative extremists.
Never forget that everything Hitler did in Germany was legal.
One who breaks an unjust law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for law.
When you are right you cannot be too radical; when you are wrong, you cannot be too conservative.
If physical death is the price that I must pay to free my white brothers and sisters from a permanent death of the spirit, then nothing can be more redemptive.
The means by which we live have outdistanced the ends for which we live. Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.
I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality… I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word.
A right delayed is a right denied.
Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
It is not enough to say we must not wage war. It is necessary to love peace and sacrifice for it.
Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable… Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals.
We will have to repent in this generation not merely for the vitriolic words and actions of the bad people, but for the appalling silence of the good people.
We must concentrate not merely on the negative expulsion of war but the postive affirmation of peace.
Have we not come to such an impasse in the modern world that we must love our enemies – or else? The chain reaction of evil – hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars – must be broken, or else we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.
The first question which the priest and the Levite asked was: “If I stop to help this man, what will happen to me?” But… the good Samaritan reversed the question: “If I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?”
A man who won’t die for something is not fit to live.
Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.
We who in engage in nonviolent direct action are not the creators of tension. We merely bring to the surface the hidden tension that is already alive.
That old law about ‘an eye for an eye’ leaves everybody blind. The time is always right to do the right thing.
Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will.
Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’