When you’re in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks.

About Natalie Clifford Barney

Natalie Clifford Barneywas an American writer who hosted a literary salon at her home in Paris that brought together French and international writers. She influenced other authors through her salon and also with her poetry, plays, and epigrams, often thematically tied to her lesbianism and feminism.

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To be one’s own master is to be the slave of self.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Why grab possessions like thieves, or divide them like socialists when you can ignore them like wise men?

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

If we keep an open mind, too much is likely to fall into it.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

How many inner resources one needs to tolerate a life of leisure without fatigue.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Youth is not a question of years: one is young or old from birth.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

There are intangible realities which float near us, formless and without words; realities which no one has thought out, and which are excluded for lack of interpreters.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Novels are longer than life.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Would that well-thinking people should be replaced by thinking ones.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Most virtue is a demand for greater seduction.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

When you’re in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Lovers should also have their days off.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Time engraves our faces with all the tears we have not shed.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

With renunciation life begins.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Renouncement: the heroism of mediocrity.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

The advantage of love at first sight is that it delays a second sight.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Entrepreneurship is the last refuge of the trouble making individual.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

It is time for dead languages to be quiet.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)

Fatalism is the lazy man’s way of accepting the inevitable.

Natalie Clifford Barney

writer and salonist (1876-1972)