Our most intimate friend is not he to whom we show the worst, but the best of our nature.
Meaning of the quote
The quote means that the person we are closest to is not the one we show our worst or most negative qualities to, but the one we show our best and most positive qualities to. Our most intimate friends are the ones who see the best parts of us, not the worst.
About Nathaniel Hawthorne
Nathaniel Hawthorne was an American novelist and short story writer whose works often focused on history, morality, and religion. Born in 1804 in Salem, Massachusetts, he had a long and varied career, publishing his first novel in 1828 and later major works like ‘The Scarlet Letter’ before his death in 1864.
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