Why one man rather than another? It was odd. You find yourself involved with a fellow for life just because he was the one that you met when you were nineteen.
Meaning of the quote
Simone de Beauvoir's quote suggests that the person you end up with in a long-term relationship is often quite random. She says it's strange how you can feel so connected to someone just because they happened to be the one you met when you were a teenager. The quote implies that the person you end up with isn't necessarily the "best" choice, but rather the one you happened to cross paths with at a certain point in your life.
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