No one is more arrogant toward women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious about his virility.

Meaning of the quote

The quote suggests that men who are worried about how "manly" they are tend to act in rude and mean ways towards women. They may think they need to prove their strength or power, so they become arrogant, aggressive, and dismissive of women. This behavior often comes from their own insecurity about their masculinity.

About Simone de Beauvoir

Simone de Beauvoir was a French philosopher, writer, and feminist activist. She was best known for her groundbreaking work ‘The Second Sex,’ which analyzed women’s oppression and became a foundational text of modern feminism. Despite not considering herself a philosopher, Beauvoir had a significant influence on feminist existentialism and theory.

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