Just as in earthly life lovers long for the moment when they are able to breathe forth their love for each other, to let their souls blend in a soft whisper, so the mystic longs for the moment when in prayer he can, as it were, creep into God.

Meaning of the quote

In this quote, Soren Kierkegaard, a Danish philosopher, compares two types of longing. Just like lovers yearn to express their love for each other and become one, a mystic (someone deeply interested in spiritual matters) longs to connect with God through prayer. The mystic wants to get as close to God as possible, just as lovers want to get close to each other.

About Soren Kierkegaard

Soren Aabye Kierkegaard was a Danish theologian, philosopher, poet, social critic, and religious author who is widely considered to be the first Christian existentialist philosopher. He wrote critical texts on organized religion, Christianity, morality, ethics, psychology, and the philosophy of religion, displaying a fondness for metaphor, irony, and parables.

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Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.

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Personality is only ripe when a man has made the truth his own.

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The more a man can forget, the greater the number of metamorphoses which his life can undergo; the more he can remember, the more divine his life becomes.

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Purity of heart is to will one thing.

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People demand freedom of speech as a compensation for the freedom of thought which they seldom use.

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If I am capable of grasping God objectively, I do not believe, but precisely because I cannot do this I must believe.

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The highest and most beautiful things in life are not to be heard about, nor read about, nor seen but, if one will, are to be lived.

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Don’t forget to love yourself.

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Love is all, it gives all, and it takes all.

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Face the facts of being what you are, for that is what changes what you are.

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To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. Not to dare is to lose oneself.

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I feel as if I were a piece in a game of chess, when my opponent says of it: That piece cannot be moved.

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God creates out of nothing. Wonderful you say. Yes, to be sure, but he does what is still more wonderful: he makes saints out of sinners.

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Most men pursue pleasure with such breathless haste that they hurry past it.

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Listen to the cry of a woman in labor at the hour of giving birth – look at the dying man’s struggle at his last extremity, and then tell me whether something that begins and ends thus could be intended for enjoyment.

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It belongs to the imperfection of everything human that man can only attain his desire by passing through its opposite.

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It is so hard to believe because it is so hard to obey.

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How absurd men are! They never use the liberties they have, they demand those they do not have. They have freedom of thought, they demand freedom of speech.

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People understand me so poorly that they don’t even understand my complaint about them not understanding me.

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Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living.

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What is a poet? An unhappy person who conceals profound anguish in his heart but whose lips are so formed that as sighs and cries pass over them they sound like beautiful music.

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Patience is necessary, and one cannot reap immediately where one has sown.

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Since boredom advances and boredom is the root of all evil, no wonder, then, that the world goes backwards, that evil spreads. This can be traced back to the very beginning of the world. The gods were bored; therefore they created human beings.

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Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.

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Marriage brings one into fatal connection with custom and tradition, and traditions and customs are like the wind and weather, altogether incalculable.

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The truth is a snare: you cannot have it, without being caught. You cannot have the truth in such a way that you catch it, but only in such a way that it catches you.

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The paradox is really the pathos of intellectual life and just as only great souls are exposed to passions it is only the great thinker who is exposed to what I call paradoxes, which are nothing else than grandiose thoughts in embryo.

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Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.

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At the bottom of enmity between strangers lies indifference.

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Because of its tremendous solemnity death is the light in which great passions, both good and bad, become transparent, no longer limited by outward appearences.

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Love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself.

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I see it all perfectly; there are two possible situations – one can either do this or that. My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it – you will regret both.

Soren Kierkegaard

Danish theologian, philosopher, poet and social critic (1813-1855)

Be that self which one truly is.

Soren Kierkegaard

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Since my earliest childhood a barb of sorrow has lodged in my heart. As long as it stays I am ironic if it is pulled out I shall die.

Soren Kierkegaard

Danish theologian, philosopher, poet and social critic (1813-1855)

Old age realizes the dreams of youth: look at Dean Swift; in his youth he built an asylum for the insane, in his old age he was himself an inmate.

Soren Kierkegaard

Danish theologian, philosopher, poet and social critic (1813-1855)

People commonly travel the world over to see rivers and mountains, new stars, garish birds, freak fish, grotesque breeds of human; they fall into an animal stupor that gapes at existence and they think they have seen something.

Soren Kierkegaard

Danish theologian, philosopher, poet and social critic (1813-1855)