I lived a very don’t-ask, don’t-tell life.

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This quote means that Tab Hunter kept many details about his personal life private. He didn't openly share information that others might have asked him about, and he also didn't volunteer that information himself. He preferred to keep certain parts of his life hidden from public view.

About Tab Hunter

Tab Hunter was an American actor, singer, film producer, and author known for his blond hair and good looks. During the 1950s and 1960s, he was a Hollywood heart-throb, starring in numerous films and releasing a hit single. His 2005 autobiography, ‘Tab Hunter Confidential: The Making of a Movie Star,’ was a New York Times bestseller.

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The people that really were important, that mattered, had a great foundation. I had no training. I had to learn while doing, and it was really difficult.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

People believe what they want to believe.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

A lot has been written about Tony Perkins and myself and I figured, Let’s get it straight. I had a relationship with Tony for two to three years, but those are only threads in the tapestry of my whole life.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I did Polyester, and I don’t regret one minute of it. It was wonderful.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

All the things that happen to people in the industry today, the actors, what they have to put up with, all the people wanting to know every single moment of their lives – I think it’s really sad.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I wasn’t an actor. They they take the externals. Here I was, a kid thrown into Hollywood with a brand-new name, starring in motion pictures.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I said, God, the press and people, they just really hate me and I’m really trying. Geraldine Page said, Listen to this, Tab. If people don’t like you, that’s their bad taste.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I lived a very don’t-ask, don’t-tell life.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

Rock Hudson wasn’t my type. He’s a great guy and had a great sense of humor.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

Hollywood cools, and when it cools you have to go to where the work is. I ran off to Italy to do spaghetti westerns.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I learned denial from my mother. I just never confronted things and if anybody did, I just would go crazy.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

People place such importance on the external. It’s disgusting.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I’d work for John Waters again, because he’s so off the wall.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

John Wayne treated me fine, but that macho stuff turns me off. It’s not real.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I knew Jimmy Dean. He tested for ‘Battle Cry’. Paul Newman tested for ‘Battle Cry’. I did nine tests to finally get that role.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I turned into a workaholic to the point of where my health was in jeopardy.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)

I don’t care whether people like me or dislike me. I’m not on earth to win a popularity contest. I’m here to be the best human being I possibly can be.

Tab Hunter

American actor and singer (1931-2018)