The more love I craved, the more distant and abusive he grew. The role I longed to play was never written into Ryan’s script: daughter.
Meaning of the quote
The quote suggests that even though Tatum O'Neal desperately wanted more love and affection from her father, Ryan O'Neal, he became more distant and abusive towards her. She had always hoped to have a loving, father-daughter relationship with him, but that was never something he was willing to give her.
About Tatum O’Neal
Tatum O’Neal is an American actress who made history as the youngest person to win a competitive Academy Award. She starred in films like The Bad News Bears and Little Darlings, and also appeared in TV shows like Sex and the City and Law & Order: Criminal Intent.
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