I just try to get out of my own way because if anyone is their own worst enemy, it’s usually you.

Meaning of the quote

The quote means that we often create problems for ourselves. Instead of letting our own thoughts and feelings get in the way, we should try to focus on what's important and not let our own negative attitudes hold us back. In other words, we are sometimes our own biggest obstacle, so it's best to avoid getting in our own way.

About Taylor Dayne

Taylor Dayne, an American singer, rose to fame in 1987 with her debut single ‘Tell It to My Heart’. She went on to achieve six more top-10 singles and has been recognized with Grammy nominations, an American Music Award, and honors from the New York Hall of Fame and Rolling Stone magazine.

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