The surest cure for vanity is loneliness.

Meaning of the quote

When you feel proud and show off a lot, it's because you want other people to notice you. But if you spend time alone without anyone around, you'll realize that vanity (being overly proud of yourself) doesn't really matter. Being alone can help you become more humble and stop caring so much about what others think of you.

About Tom Wolfe

Tom Wolfe was an American author and journalist known for his satirical writings on the counterculture of the 1960s and the lifestyles of the elites in New York City. He was a pioneer of the ‘New Journalism’ style and wrote bestsellers like ‘The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test’ and ‘The Bonfire of the Vanities’.

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