In essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our consistent actions. It’s not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently.

Meaning of the quote

The key idea is that the small things we do every day, not the big things we do occasionally, are what really shape our lives. If you want to live the kind of life you want, you need to be in control of your daily habits and actions, not just the special events. The choices you make repeatedly, not the ones you make once in a while, are what truly determine the direction of your life.

About Tony Robbins

Tony Robbins is a renowned American author, coach, and speaker known for his inspiring seminars and best-selling self-help books like ‘Unlimited Power’ and ‘Awaken the Giant Within’. Born as Anthony Jay Robbins, he has been helping people unlock their full potential for over four decades.

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