There is never jealousy where there is not strong regard.

Meaning of the quote

The quote means that you will not feel jealous of someone unless you really care about them and their actions. If you don't have strong feelings for a person, you won't be bothered by what they do. Jealousy comes from having a deep attachment to someone.

About Washington Irving

Washington Irving was an acclaimed American author of the 19th century, known for his short stories “Rip Van Winkle” and “The Legend of Sleepy Hollow.” He also wrote biographies, histories, and served as an ambassador to Spain, earning fame both in the US and Europe.

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Washington Irving

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

A woman never forgets her sex. She would rather talk with a man than an angel, any day.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

An inexhaustible good nature is one of the most precious gifts of heaven, spreading itself like oil over the troubled sea of thought, and keeping the mind smooth and equable in the roughest weather.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above them.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

He is the true enchanter, whose spell operates, not upon the senses, but upon the imagination and the heart.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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I am always at a loss at how much to believe of my own stories.

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American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

One of the greatest and simplest tools for learning more and growing is doing more.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Christmas is a season for kindling the fire for hospitality in the hall, the genial flame of charity in the heart.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Kindness in women, not their beauteous looks, shall win my love.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Some minds seem almost to create themselves, springing up under every disadvantage and working their solitary but irresistible way through a thousand obstacles.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Honest good humor is the oil and wine of a merry meeting, and there is no jovial companionship equal to that where the jokes are rather small and laughter abundant.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

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Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

Age is a matter of feeling, not of years.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)

There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.

Washington Irving

American writer, historian and diplomat (1783-1859)