Only the insecure strive for security.

Meaning of the quote

People who feel unsure about themselves often try very hard to feel safe and comfortable. But those who are confident in who they are don't feel the need to always be secure or protected. They're willing to take risks and step out of their comfort zones because they trust in themselves.

About Wayne Dyer

Wayne Dyer was an influential American self-help author and motivational speaker. He wrote the best-selling book “Your Erroneous Zones” and went on to publish over 20 more books, while also hosting popular PBS specials. Dyer’s work was inspired by thinkers like Abraham Maslow and shifted from psychological themes to spirituality over the course of his career.

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